hollywood actress, end up in your video, brad? >> i stalked her. without her knowing. no, what happened was, i have a long story about going to see "father of the bride" on what would become one of my biggest heartbreaks. which was, you know, college romance. that was our movie. ended badly. i came up with this idea that kim should be in a music video. i called her manager, who was wonderful, a woman named tammy chase, her manager at the time, gave story how i'd written a song, would kim want to be in the music video? she called kim. and i had ulterior motives, of course. i wanted to meet her more than anything. yes, i did want her to be in the music video. she called kim and said, this guy called you, wants to put you in a video, you're going to date him. she was doing my work, great manager. >> she said yes. so how long between making the video till you guys becoming