Its that much fun. People are that sweet and the music and the barbecue. You had to be in hog heaven. I was. I was in heaven. Hog heaven. All right. So i was in nantucket visiting with a family that ive grown to love very, very much. The kitridge family. They had a tragedy in their family last november when mike had a very serious stroke. But hes doing so much better. Sending him our love to lisa and mike and kiley and casey. And, you know, you start to celebrate what you still have, not what youve lost. You concentrate on what youve lost, you know, youre going to be the root of bitterness can take root. And that just impacts not only your whole life but everybody elses. So, remember, you can be bitter or better. All the letter i. Im going to write a song. Oh, yeah, i already did. A lot of people have been waiting to see how lea michele was doing after the death of her boyfriend. And this is one of those moments where you sort of wonder how shes going to be. They had the teen Choice Awards last night. And lea michele got up to accept an award for the cast of glee for best comedy. Actually, she got it for best act her speech, i think, was after she got the award, which was kind of a surprise for best actress in a comedy. What she did after that was very, very poignant. She spoke about her boyfriend and costar cory monteith. Lets take a look. I wanted to dedicate this award to cory. For all of you out there who loved and admired cory as much as i did, i promise that with your love, were going to get through this together. He was very special to me and also to the world. And we were very lucky to witness his incredible talent, his handsome smile and his beautiful, beautiful heart. Whether you knew him personally or just as finn hudson, cory reached out and he became a part of all of our hearts. And thats where hell stay forever. So thank you guys so much. Thank you. Oh, my god. That was if you want to know the definition of heartfelt in the dictionary, look up that. To stand in people and to share that has to be difficult. So we were paging through the New York Times over the weekend and theres that social cues column. So there was a question that got our attention. It said we live next door to neighbors from hell. On monday, after living through yet another weekend of an allnight of all night partying. That they werent invited to. I saw a basket of sweets from a local gourmet shop at their door. I took it without a seconds remorse and i ate the contents. In my view, it was simply compensatory. My boyfriend disagrees. What do you think . Sorry. Heres the thing. First of all, if you live next to an annoying neighbor, whatever it is, their lawn is too long, they are loud, the kids are screaming, the dog is barking, you get annoyed. Of course. But i dont get the going so far as to take something from their doorstep. Thats a little dont you think thats a little its theft. Im so sorry. I like that one the best. I love this. Yeah, you dont do that. The way you communicate to the neighbor is you let them you call the cops. If they arent listening. Parties going all night long. Let it be someone else anonymously called the police but dont take no, hes right. As usual excellent. His advice was replace the goody basket. But when you dont have any remorse. Sometimes you feel so wronged, its like if someone cuts you off, in traffic you want to zoom up and cut them off. You do. I know. And i do. Hoda is a bird lover if you know what i mean. Okay. Do you remember when we talked a couple of weeks ago about this trip that they are selling, people who want to go in 2022, and join a mars settlement. Now theres a oneway ticket. You go to mars in 2022. No return flight. 100,000 people raised their hands and said pick. I want to go and form a small colony on mars. And of the 100,000, theyre going to narrow it down ultimately to four. Its a reality series. They all get a rose on mars. Can you even imagine . No, no. They must have nothing to live for. Either you are crazy adventurous. Go ahead and offend 100,000 people, hoda. I doubt theyre watching our show. Were too high brow. Not. But if you are willing to leave everything behind, your kids, family or maybe dont have theres nothing really at home to live for. If you are a total loser and want to go to mars is what she is basically saying. Its weird. Unless you have enormous sense of adventure. How do you think that lewis and clark got to the grand tetons. Dont say tetons again. They probably didnt watch our show last time. Sorry. What is it about the grand tetons. Thats how they got their name. They were going this is true. They were going across the country, google it and they saw two huge mountains that reminded them of, shall we say, home, and they called it look. The grand tetons. They named them after tatas . It was really the grand tatas. Was it really . What is your favorite thing. By the way, i miss sara. I was in nantucket. I collect books about nantucket. There is a beautiful new one called a nantucket experience. Its a year in the life. Shelly and dan dunlap work for a lee Real Estate Company there and theyve been going to nantucket as summer residents for 18 years. Suddenly they live there all year round. So she started writing a blog about it. And it just took off like crazy. And it was her bloggers who said please, please make it a book. Most of the pictures with her cell phone and self published it. So its a real great story of dont let dont let the people in the world who say you cant do something with your cell phone, a dream and a little knowledge about how to self publish. You can do it. Its available. 36 at amazon. Com or a nantucket experience. Com, i believe. So good for her. I was in the airport flying back from nashville and wanted a book to read. And i picked up the jack jackie book. This is about the final years of jack jackie. And a lot of books are being published around now because its the 50th anniversary of the assassination. This book, by the way, i picked it up in the airport, its so great and such a page turner and the author used a lot of resources and people who he promised he wouldnt write the book until 50 years after so its because theres a lot of new stuff. A lot of this is rehashed stuff and this is new. Its really, really juicy. We are going to like them more after or no . I do. So well see. Oh, good. This, by the way is for you. Oh, it is . Coming up, an entire week of ambush makeovers in honor of kathie lees birthday. Oh. Two women from the plaza who are older than i am spectacular, not as spectacular as i am, but no, im kidding. Theyll be treated to gorgeous new looks. From a huge celebrity bash to a Celebrity Health scare and big movies, all the scoop youll need to know you missed this weekend. And a great surfer has a wonderful book. Well be right back with all that. Time for todays buzz and all the hollywood gossip you might have missed over the weekend. From Jennifer Anistons blowout bash. One of our alltime favorite guys, tim stack. Hi. How are you . Good. Quite the Birthday Celebration week. I know. We have ours, which is important. But another one. Justin theroux. Jennifer anistons fiance. It was his birthday. 42. She threw him a gigantic party. A bash. Wasnt it also their one Year Anniversary . From being engaged. And so a lot of people thought this was like they are getting married maybe but, no, just a big, Awesome Party. At their house . At her 21 million abode. When are they getting married . Good question. I mean, this to me seems like shes putting some pressure on him. Like hey, honey, see this Awesome Party im throwing you. You better get moving on this. You think so . I think so. Shes not get anything younger. I mean come on. This is my job. Anybody good go to the party . Yeah it was cool. I wasnt there, but i snuck in. I was in the linen closet. No, ellen degeneres, portia de rossi, emily blunt, all, tons of cool people, fun people. Talk about chris brown. He had some sort of medical issue. Chris brown on friday had a seizure while in a recording studio. Hes so young. I know. Who knows whats going on there. But he it says a nonepileptic seizure. I am also not a doctor. I dont know yeah, apparently why are you here with all the buzz on stuff you have absolutely no idea what youre talking about. He was treated by his doctor the next day because he refused treatment apparently that night. But his publicist blamed it on the ongoing legal battles and negative fatigue and intense emotional stress. And all the negative publicity. Stop reading it. Exactly. Make music. Have a life. Making a drama out of it. What everyone is talking about and kathie lee and i have yet to see this, breaking bad. This is the final season. Its the final season. Its the final season. Too late for us. I dont watch it either because i only like tv shows that involve attractive people. And it is kind of like i never met a crystal meth person yet. Meth is not good for the skin. And your teeth fall out. I need tv shows where people are attractive so that i can aspire. Thats why i watch this show. Happy birthday thats my gift. By the way, hes medicated. My elbow is broken. Fire island. We get the idea. We bring it home. The box office. The box office, elysium was number one with matt damon and jodie foster and were the millers came in second and did really, really well. Surprisingly. Any other comedy out there right now . No, but, you know what also is doing really well, its been trending is hoda on my kotb i want to hoda on your kotb yeah, yeah hoda, did i tell you it would just catch on fire. Its a gay anthem now. Oh, my god, hoda, please, all weekend. I have been hodaing on my kotb all weekend. Or on your kotb. Oh, on his own. Thats sad. Any who. Thats how he broke his wrist. Thats all im saying. Thank you, tim. Thank you, tim. Hes one of the countrys most happy birthday. We love this man. Want to know what your man is thinking . Were going to give you the scoop after this. License and registration please. Whats this . Uhh, its my Geico Insurance id card, sir. Its digital, uh, pretty cool right . Maybe. You know why i pulled you over today . Because im a pig driving a convertible . Tail lights out. Fix it. Digital insurance id cards. Just a click away with the geico mobile app. For Digestive Health . Yes and did you know that trubiotics is a daily probiotic that helps in two ways. It supports digestive and immune health by working in your gut where 70 of your immune system lives. Try trubiotics today. Where 70 of your immune system lives. Easo why do you feel exso tired afterward . Instead of refueled and focused, youre foggy and sluggish. Its that 2 30 feeling again. So how do you get your clear, alert feeling back . Have a coffee. Then another . Do this instead. Take one 5hour energy. In minutes foggy and sluggish is gone. Hello clear and alert. 5hour energy. Take it after lunch. Be clear and alert for hours. Were back with guys tell all. We gather some handsome guys ready to answer your burning questions about love and relationships. First is jason turner who is divorced with two children. So sad. Oh, wow. Next, Kai Henderson from the ask him anything column. Sure. Hes single. Who cares. And our steady married man is comedian, actor and dad rick younger. And single guy and attorney ryan shenavia. We have two newbies. Fresh blood we like to call it. Were going across the street to the crowd for our first question. Hello. Im elaine from cedar falls, iowa. And my question is what is the first thing you notice when you look at a woman. Teeth. Teeth . You do . I definitely am a tooth guy, definitely. All right. Lets go down the line. First thing. Dont be thinking too much. First thing, for tv, would be her eyes. On tv, id say her eyes. Thats pc you have to say the truth. You have to be real. Im an eyes and butt man. I want a welcoming smile. Absolutely. Cannot lie. Tammy asks, what kind of little surprises do men like from women, and do you appreciate them . I really, now being divorced and being a single parent, i definitely appreciate the fact that i now dont have automatically folded clean underwear in my drawer. I didnt appreciate that when i had it. If somebody came over to your house right now and folded your underwear it would change your life . Well, they have to get washed first. Thats the thing. If they arent folded how do you know if they are clean. All i know it used to happen and now it doesnt. As far as surprises, i just like being treated nice. You can buy me a bag of cheetohs, 2 for 1. Its just a surprise that you wanted to treat me nice. Just the gesture of doing something. Really is true. Getting something little would be like sending a sexy text. Were going to be back in a second. Were going to give you a chance to make up for it. More guys tell all coming up after your local news. Macho macho man were back with more of today. What is more fun than our panel of guys tell all. Divorced guy, jason turner, the single guy henderson, the married dad rick younger and ryan. Hello, kids. Are you ready . Now its going to get tough. Were going to go across the street. Warmed up now. Hi. Im doran from new hampton, iowa. I want to know what you are really thinking about when i ask you what you are thinking about and you say nothing. What happens is you ask me what im thinking about and it makes me forget what im thinking about, every time. Im thinking about, when is this conversation going to end. And my question is, do you really want to know what im thinking about . Kai . We might be thinking about nothing or we might be thinking about football or a song we just heard or we might be thinking, man, i dont want to be with you right now. Ooh. This is a very im sorry i asked him to tell the truth. Heres something from dee. She asks, how do you get your husband to stand up to his parents for you . Yes. Rick . Oh, thats well, see, the thing is that i my wife and my parents got along just fine. How about you with her parents . Fine. This is what happened. I met their parents and i said grace. Once i said grace, i was in. Fine, godly young man. And my father had a great sense of humor. My wife is white. He nicknamed her light skin and they were cool. Okay. You really got to get with it early. You dont want to wait until you are married and now try to form the relationship, right . You want to get to know them ahead of time. Every guy knows you want to meet the dad, get that relationship. With women, its the same way. Is it a deal breaker if you meet a girl and meet the parents and its like, hi. You are marrying the family as well, so it is a factor into the decision. Something you should think about. If you are having problems, it could be an indication of some problems where its going to go. If hes not going to do it, youre going to do it. Lets go back across the street. Hi, im cynthia from california. And i would like to know if men notice when women get their eyebrows waxed, their hair blown out and get their nails done. Thats a great question. You know, we dont, but we dont want to notice it. Hair, i usually notice. Eyebrows, no. If you didnt do it we notice if you point it out. Your eyebrows have to be pretty bushy for us to notice. But if you are Walking Around looking shocked all the time, we notice that and probably dont want to know. If theres a tiny bit of stubble because you didnt save your legs that day, do you care . You are a grown woman a little stubble lets me know that. Big eyelashes that they stick on you like those fake ones . I think thats a little too much. Keep it real. Keep it natural. One time i got the best blow out ever and i walked up to my husband and he goes likehis. Oh, your hair looks puffy. Puffy . It was come on. Got divorced. You dont like my hair, its out. Not that shes not still bitter. Okay. Do guys mess up things on purpose . This is from crystal. Cleaning jobs, home repairs, et cetera, hoping to get out of doing them in the future. Absolutely. I never heard that. Now you say no, you say yes. What happens is you mess up something one time by mistake and you see the positive results from it. Then you are like, oh. I dont thk that way like im going to mess this up intentionally. I messed up cleaning but ive never well, i have messed up Home Improvement but not on purpose. Ive messed up cleaning on purpose. Im the worst cook in the world because i dont know how to do it. I mess it up on purpose so i dont have to do it. There are benefits of knowing what you have to do. Wash dishes proactively. All right, gentlemen, thank you. Very proud of you. You all performed very, very well. And you made up for it, buddy. Time magazine called him americas best preacher. Youll find out why. We love this man. Bishop t. D. Jakes on his mega event putting family first. Great guy. Coming up after this. Youre too perfect. Even the inside of your dishwasher sparkles. Ok, so im the bad guy for being clean . You said it you know, you. Bababababa ladies lets not fight dirty. Hi, cascade kitchen counselor. See, over time. New cascade platinums triple cleaning formula delivers brilliant shine that finish gel cant beat. It even helps keep your dishwasher sparkling. New cascade platinum is cascades best. It even helps keep your dishwasher sparkling. Over 20 million drivers are insured with geico. So get a free rate quote today. I love it how much do you love it . Animation is hot. And i think it makes geicos 20 million drivers message very compelling, very compelling. This is some really strong stuff so you turned me into a cartoon. Lovely. Geico. Fifteen minutes could save you fifteen percent or more on car insurance. Bishop t. D. Jakes is one of the most talked about preachers in the country known for his charitable work and an empire that spans film, tv and radio. Bishop jakes is the chief pastor of the potters house, a nondenominational mega church in dallas with one big message. Bring back the american family. He is hoping to do that again through an event hes hosting called mega family 2014. Hes going to do it this time in dallas, your hometown. Im excited about bringing it to dallas. Were so glad you are back with us today. Its wonderful to be here. Its a huge event. Were talking about not just thousands of people, right. More than, what, 100,000 . The last time we had it in america we broke all records at the georgia dome of about 100,000 people per day. Weve had it in johannesburg as well. So its an International Meeting and people come from all over the world. I would say, maybe im wrong, the biggest problem in our entire culture is the breakdown of the american family. Am i close to being right . I think it is. And the stats bear that out. And were really trying to strengthen the family on all levels. They dont have to be perfect families to come. They can be broken families, mixed families, blended families. Whatever you got left. You cant build on what you lost. You have to build on what you have left. With a mega fest, a few day event, how does that transform someone, do you think . I thi