Augmentation. They want to look like celebrities. Experts are saying they are creating inn realistic body images that new moms feels like they need to hold to themselves. You see these people right after they had a baby a month ago. It is pressure. We look at celebrities, and instantly they have twins, they have babies and then couple months later they photographed and they look slim. It has to to with the air brushing and photo shopping. But that is what you have in your mind is i have to look that way. Even if you know they are using those tricks. Yes. Pressure is still on. You feel like you have to look that way. So plastic surgeons say moms post baby come in for the liposuction. Once you get one part done the fat goes somewhere else. Yes, they will have another baby. I think you wait until have you get babies out. I know my girlfriend. Im in my mid 30s. Having babies. They are on the tail end of having their last. Im doing a mommy make over of this body. They plan to wait unless you have a surprise baby. What does that detail the surprise baby. The one you are not expecting but 10 years apart, oops. Surprise baby. Im not a mom but i think the pressure for me i go to the gym all the time. I watch what i eat. Then i remember that body, i had when i was a runner. I feel certain things. Eight to 10 years ago. Yes. You have to give yourself a break. Society we live in. Your body toss change when you get the in the 30s, 40s. If you feel like you are doing the best you can. I do the best i can but i dont look the best i can. Well, you look. Dawn take that little need will and suck this out. Im just telling you. Yes. In 20 years you will look back at your self now and say what was i upset about. Yes. Things you complained about and say i didnt mind looking that way. It is addictive. The big question would you ever get plastic surgery. I think i would honestly get something removed, not something put in. Breast augmentation party would be too scared to get boobs put in but if it was lip owe or sucking something out i would not be opposed to that. I the two whole cool sculpting. How was it. Painful. I thought it was a painful roary dont mine talking bit. Our floor director looks disgusted but right around here, you work it the out, and i dit. The basically they do cool sculpting, it is a machine that sucks you a little bit. Yes. Demonstrations on the show before. Yes. Basically freezes you fat. You leave it on with a cooling pad and then they take it off because you almost have frostbite and that singling sensation. Little bit too much. I dit once. That was it. A girlfriend at the gym said she didnt see results as much as you thought. Did you notice a big difference. It was it worth the money. No, i kept eating. Maybe if i would have stopped food in take possibly but i never had, i did restylane. I havent done botox yet because im afraid of the freezing of the face. I did restylane for a story. I did it underneath eyes where you get shallow. The once again, painful i dont know how people do the lips. But it came, like squirted, and it was black and blue for whose. Yeah. So i did it for a story, when i lived in california. That is why im working on accepting myself. It is just too creepy. It is tough when we talk about ourselves, but we look at videos, photos of you, and are shock. When i thought of the way i thought about myself in pictures 25 years ago and used to think look at the me. Now, i would kill. Ten years from now you were going to say wow, i wish. It says how much time we spend putting ourselves down. I hate to hear when other people do it. It has a lot the to do with social media. It is true. Especially on tv. You have to have a strong sense of self to resist a lot of that. Hey dont forget that cardio. Yes, good morning, by the way. He was nice about it. He didnt say i looked bloated but dont forget to hit your cardio. Im trying, believe me, it is not the same. You hit a certain age and your metabolism back in the day i could lose. And you are not getting sleep, getting up in the middle of the night. That is a challenge as well. All i can say is try to do the best you can. Whatever it turns out to be. We will get through it together. Speaking of imperfections heres another story about the beauty, in it, imperfections, do you think. I would agree. A lot of people we talk about covering up and especially when it comes to pregnancy we see stretch marks guys get them too. We can talk about woman with stretch marks around their belly. The guys get it around their shoulders a little will bit. From lifting weights and the back when they stretch out but most striking photos in this years sports illustrated. I dont know if you saw this, swimsuit issue, it is this one right here. I love it. Yes. Now this isnt from sports illustrated. But we look at swimsuit, this is in the swimsuit addition. Thinks an ad for lane bryant. That is in sports illustrated. Yes. It is not part of the spread they have. But they included it, which is cool. If you look around the stomach area, this is an area of concern, you can see stretch marks, in retouching, no photo shopping, no air brushing and basically lane bryant, this is denise, the model, they wanted to show off her stretch marks. She said that she want to show women that nobody is perfect. And that imperfections are, in fact, attractive. I love it. A lot of woman wouldnt wear that type of bathing suit but because of the stretch marks, this is how i look, i like this suit. Im that same way. Is there certain things i dont want to be reminded of. One piece because i can cover up those areas. Totally. I think shes complete liz brave. I remember my mom told me when i was 25 years old she said just a arrange when i turn 28 cellulite appeared in places i did not imagine. People say it is hereditary. She never got stretch marks but she did get cellulite. She was warning me it was coming. It was a good warning. I knew you were coming. I was ready for you. Did you have a conversation with yourself like that, like a one on one. Hi there. Mom told me were you coming back there. And you came. Throw a party. Right on time too. It was right before 30, it came. I know it is tough. We all embrace your body but you have to. At the end of the daze you have to love yourself, you have to be confident with who you are. It the is truey talk about that with jessica our executive producer. When you know your body, you know what works, doesnt work and you embrace it. Talking about it with my niece all the time because shes getting into modeling. Shes concerned about her nose being too wide. Son will embrace you, first of all you have to embrace yourself but someone will embrace you. I had news director says you dont change this, change that you will never get next to a blonde. It is insane. If you take everything. It will absolutely destroy you i mean, it is not to say if you are unhappy with part of your body, it is your choice to alter it if you want, but you got your little procedure and stuff because you wanted to. But i dont think it is up to everybody else to criticize people. It is true. Amen to that. Yes. Signs of a tech obsessed modern life, nearly half of the family text each other. Can you believe this. I can. Families text each other in the same house. Guilty. 45 percent of families with children text each other verse facetoface communication. In the third of households people use their mobile device s when they are eating, four in 10 parents complain their children have ignored them because they were distract by their phones and then saying tech crazies getting worse. The it can have a catastrophic effect on family life. Yes. I live my little place here is no more than 1500 square feet, right. Right. I have people over sometimes, i height be in my room doing something and they are out on the couch and im texting here i come, give me five minutes. I am just in an apartment. Instead of yelling, screaming. When my daughter was home for christmas i texted her dinner would be ready in a half an hour. She was upstairs. My husband was appalled. He said you cant talk to her. It is better than yelling. Dinner . I dont have a problem witt as soon as dinner time starts and having conversation i think phones need to go down. You see couples sitting at a table and they are just non stop, there is no communication between the two. I dont understand. That i do on purpose now watch other couples or interactions of people whether romantic or not just at dinner. So many times people sit there on their device whole time or they dont say a word to each other. Im like why did they come out for that just to eat. You are the creeper in the corner. What are you guys doing over there. One thing that we do is if were having a discussion, it is a dispute and we need to look up something. We will google it. Yes. That was so and so this that movie. That kind of thing. You have to rules in your family, certain time you have to put town your phone. We did when my daughter was living at home, no phones at dinner. But she has no one to say hey listen. Dont get me started. It is true. We have to remine each other because we are, we have gotten in those bad habits being on our tones, let me check my email real quick, ill be right with you. I have been super annoyed by it the because he thought i was always on my phone but you have to stay plugged into know what is going on in this business. You know how we get emails around the clock all day. I just feel like it was an over whether it. To my life. It is an over whether it. If your partner is getting stressed out, it is youre on the phone way too much. It can be a bit much in the relationship. I have been guilty of. That you check emails, check when you wake up. And you feel the need to respond but at the a certain point, put the phone down. A lot of times on the saturday i wont even connect with anything ill have it unplugged the saturday. Im telling you it is re trekker. Unplug saturday. I remember an hour ago so i will check all weekend long. Something to look forward to. Yes. Im looking forward to. He ignores me i know it is disconnect hour. Growing up you had your favorite boy ban. Yes. Who was it. I dont have any mine would be toys two men. Totally. Yes. Im so old. Who are you talking about. I dont know, the osmond brothers, partridge family, the beatles. The four aces. Dont do that. Just stop right there. I mentioned menudo and lauren said who. Menudo. Early 90s right. Early 90s. Then they had different members as they aged out. Ricky martin was one. Yes, he was one. I saw him a couple of years ago. Yes. It was it. We have gone off the rails. I can talk about boy groups because new kid on the block. They are back. They are back. Shocking trip to target turns into an unexpected run in with new kids on the the block. She created a hilarious video we have all seen, you know, this scenario play out. Run in the store looking frazzled hoping to not see anyone you know. This mom runs into joey macintyre, new kid of the block during a trip to target. She calls up the mom crew. All right, ladies, this is it, you dont get a Second Chance to make a first i am regulars. We have been practicing our whole lives for this. Yes, we have. On my count. 56, seven, eight. This is great. This is total package tour and the tour makes a stop in philly at Wells Fargo Center june 24th. That is great. They are doing cruises and stuff. They have surged unbelievable. Year of the the boy ban, we Just Announced nsynx was coming back, new kids on the block, back street boys did something last year. Who are we missing. The boys two men. Menudo. Im obsessing over menudo. Valentines take was this week. Yes. Did yall get a little love that you deserved. Im very fortunate, yes, i did. I got a single rose from guess who. From who. Sues serio, she gave me a rose. Is that the rose sitting right back there. It is dead now but it is right now. As long as it lasted for valentines day. You know what they say about flowers, my mom did the floral business. When you receive flowers and it lasts, it was given with love. Yes. Dies next day, well, then. Good thing it wasnt from a man. I already had bad love. I do love you. Maybe it was a bad flower. If you get the a rose, do you get a note, a couple thousand. A couple thousand notes. That is right. What about 7,000 of them. That is what jennifer received from her husband this past valentines day each one written on a post it note and plastered with care over the walls of the couple bedroom. He did this all while she was at work. They have been married for three years. Talk about keeping it the feisty, right. He just raised the bar my friend. You have to plan this out. You cannot, he said, wow. Each post it had a little loving snow. Can you see how each one has writing on it. Yes. Not home did he to the artwork with the big hearts and the love but he had a note pink, red, white, black. I want to know how long her shift is. That is right. Was she working a double that day. Eight hours. You have to take much longer then this. That is amazing, right. That is what you do at three years. I have a story, i was dat ing a guy, i went away one weekend. He condition expired with friend to get into my place and put 300 balloonness there. So i think i found a picture but also in there, were post it notes. But post it notes all over. Look is wonderful. Isnt that nice. You seemed upset by this. Conspire. Conspire my initial question was how do you get in here. I see all these strings hanging down. I said what is going on in my place. I didnt leave this. Then i walk in and saw it, i said oh, okay. Is that a former relationship. It was a guy i was dating. Did you find it romantic. To me it was creative. I think that you put in a lot of work. It was well throughout the out it was bold. I love bold people. Thinking of you. Yeah. I was impressed. But at first i said how did you get in. How did you get in . When you are surprised you usually think of something bad yes. Some who popped all of the balloons. I just waited for them to fall. My nieces came to visit a week after, so they were pulling them all down. How long did that relationship last. Not too long. What is not too long . Darn. We dont have to go there. I was like do you find a relationship sets the standard for you, you have been married to billy for a long time. What do you mean. Somebody does Something Sweet do you feel like next relationship they have to live up to that. Yes, and no, i feel like you are impressed by those things and wow this person did this. If you i think whoever comes along next sometimes have their own unique way to express their love. Might not be gesture, type of love language. Some people speak in gifts, or time, or Different Things like that. Some people are good talkers. It is just different. I dated a guy before who would have never gone through that trouble but i would have never expect the guy never to go through that trouble. Stop talking so much. When you are smart enough to do that and not compare because everybody is different we showed you this right before the 9 00 oclock hour but we had it blurred. It was couple that had a very special announce. Can we finally reveal it lets reveal it. We should set it up first. They never thought they would be able to conceive naturally because todd became paralyzed after a dirt bike accident and cant feel anything below his chest. When his girlfriend became pregnant, this is how it announced it. It was todds idea to do this. I love this. Look at his face. After they announced this, he proposed to her. Ahh. I love this. Beautiful. So nice to see writing on the wall it still works. Shes holding up an ultrasound. I love it. Look at her face. She looks embarrassed. There are some that will say tmi and some will say good for you. I think it is exciting. He sure looked happeny congratulation to the wonderful couple. Was there a Love Connection tennis star Jean Bouchard when she lost a bet. It was all set up on social media. But she may have contacted him again. Good or bad. We will talk about it. Shes apparently not happy. She is happy. Okay, Love Connection. Hey, look at this snow, Blue Mountain ski area, but sue, a 10 this weekend for weather. Yeah, i think just think of spring skiing and it will be very popular. It is a big skiing weekend anyway president s day. Look at all the folks heading down the hill. I think karen is skiing too people started their week toned day a lot of schools are out, and machine too, so a long weekend. So yesterday marked 10 years since before it any spears shaved her head but shes leaving it all in the past. Thirtyfive yearold posted this throw back thursday shot, of herself, holding one of her sons writing found it today and realized im a very blessed, and lucky mom. Yes, 10 years. She has come a long way. Yes, she has. You like this before it the any. She has got her act together. She wasnt 10 years ago. It was a difficult time for her. Was she the one that assaulted the car with the son in her lap. Yes,. With the crowbar and bash ing one of the cars, yes. Yes. Do you remember that i was telling but yesterday, between gene bouchard she went out with a fan all over a bet. Let me tell you about the bet. Super bowl night when falcons were up. She tweeted i told you falcons were going to win. One of her fans tweeted back well, look at the picture, would you go out with a date with me if patriots win. Yes. And she said, she said, tom brady again. She agreed to go out on a date , it apparently went well. So it was with a 20 yearold named john, Missouri University student, in missouri. So, thomas, told you that guys that story, and, the date went so well, and, this is what i was saying yes, right, but, taking her somewhere, and this was a first date. And, when asked, if there would be another date bouchard told tmz for sure, maybe, ill let you guys know. And, you know, he responded, and, saying hopefully she would tell her. And i think if she went that far for first date why wouldnt she go on the second day. She wouldnt have said that if she didnt like it or wouldnt go to the second date yes, go out on a second day , kiss on the cheek, you dont want to go too far on social media. Yes. Was that kiss on the cheek. Yes. I could not see. Yeah, she was leaning a little, you know, to the right to the left, and a kiss on the cheek. Good start. It is pretty big. The it is beginning of the budding romance. They did look cute together i thought they were, i said it yesterday, very attractive couple. Yes. I met so many people who met on line now. They are planting. It is different now. It is easier to heat. You never necessity, you take the chance. Hey, do you want to go out. It is either yes or no. Skype or face time for a while to get to know each other better before you meet in person, so you can still keep a little bit of distance. I dont know. I have never done it. Dont act like you have done it. I see you two in the office, holding hand. Billys really watching right now. Ill text him when he is in the next room. Yes. Get in here. Im excited about this next guess we will have on shortly. Yes, i got the to see the movie, United Kingdom and the star of that movie is on good day, david oyeloyo true story of for bid even love how th