The Good Men Project Become a Premium Member We have pioneered the largest worldwide conversation about what it means to be a good man in the 21st century. Your support of our work is inspiring and invaluable. What Helps People Change? Grappling The Good Men Project interviews Andy Horning, author of "Grappling: White Men's Journey from Fragile to Agile". Good Men Project (GMP): When we first heard the name of your book “Grappling: From Fragile to Agile”, it immediately struck a chord. You had us at “grappling” — because that is what we see so many men today doing. They are really struggling with how to understand their privilege, and how admitting to the role they have played in white supremacists systems means that they have to not only rethink their identity, but actually do something to change the systems. Can you tell us how you came up with the title Grappling?