This is an adaptation of our weekly Shabbat newsletter, sent by our editor-in-chief on Friday afternoons. Sign up here to get the Forward’s free newsletters delivered to your inbox. And click here to download and print a PDF of Your Weekend Reads. For our Big Fat Jewish Wedding in 2004, the husband and I registered for gifts on Judaica.com as well as Bed, Bath and Beyond. It was December, so we selected a number of unusual hannukiyot, each a piece of art as well as a ritual object. Every year since, we have added a new artisanal menorah to our collection — and hosted a big fat Hannukah party, where we risk the wrath of the fire marshal by packing in enough friends to light them all.