The thing is it doesn't come without empier ic. when you say straightness, you comply everyone is ab normal. >> the dictionary says so. your problem is with basic english gram or not with me or anyone at the table. >> you can use attacks all you want. the fact is we have to deal with things where we are. it is not somehow bad not to be normal, it's not abnormal not to be normal. we are different as people, men, women, young, short, tall, fat, whatever it is. and the problem we have is the polarizing nature of what happens when you start talking about privilege being something that -- >> she is...