We have a lot to do with this. so do politicians. the way we talk about each other and the way we have this inability to listen and be kind and thoughtful, we are setting a horrible example for them and so we ve got to do better at all levels. we have really struggled and they picked up on it and that is feeding into this hopelessness and is this a world i want to be a part of. arthel: they want the adults in the room to be the adults in the room. advice for parents. what can they do? what can parents do? think broadly. do not think like politicians about healthcare which is either/or. think broadly. it is not all up to you. get them plugged in at school or afterschool programs. get them plugged in with camps so that they can get out. whether it is camp in the city or send them away, who cares. get them connected to other ....