Ask Amy: Never play a narcissist's game by their rules
Ask Amy: Never play a narcissist’s game by their rules Updated Jan 07, 2021; Facebook Share He still lives nearby and sometimes joins a “social-distancing happy hour” on the block. The others don’t know about his horrible mistreatment of his wife. My secret desire is to “out” him as an abuser. I want to enjoy the social hour, but hate being around him, so what’s the best way to handle this? — Hate Keeping This Secret Dear Hate: I believe that the best way to react to this person is to show up and claim your own space in the social sphere – and completely ignore him.