Although we get to choose our friends, we don’t get to choose our family or extended family. Thus, you’re probably not going to like everyone in your family or your spouse’s family. And, that tends to be a problem—especially during the holidays when you’re forced to spend a lot of time with those people. “This is a very common problem,” shares Claudia and David Arp, co-founders of Marriage Alive International and co-authors of Loving Your Relatives—Even When You Don’t See Eye-to-Eye. “We conducted a national extended family survey and discovered that everyone has a strain...