It's every parent's nightmare: your previously bubbly, spontaneous child suddenly turning introspective and unwilling to participate. When you try to fish, or outright ask whether she is being bullied at school, she may say everything is fine. When something is clearly wrong. Researchers have found that children do not always realise what bullying entails. When it's not as clear as a punch in the gut, they may think being victimised at school is a result of their own inadequacy or shortcomings. On the other hand, teachers sometimes feel powerless when parents complain about their child bein...