>> guys, we have the sound? anyone? no. >> do you think he was trying to make you leave the country? >> he just, what i think he just didn't want me to keep me as far as, so i couldn't say anything about him or about his behavior. he said he has text messages as evidence about that. it's hard to tell what the sheriff meant in some of these messages, but jose read them as a threat, went to a lawyer, and here we are today. >> just real quickly, how did the two of them meet? >> reporter: they met on a web site, gay.com, back in 2006. and interestingly enough, the very first photo the sh...