Boyfriend's rough hands make fingering impossible: sex advice.
Dear How to Do It, I’m a woman in my early 30s, and I’ve been dating my early 30s boyfriend for about a year. Our sex life is generally great, except for one thing: fingering. Getting fingered is hands down (no pun intended) my favorite sex act, but my boyfriend is a carpenter with big hands who also bites his nails, resulting in super calloused and jacked-up hands and ragged nails. He generously gives lots of oral and other forms of foreplay, but his fingers are painful, so we don’t do it. He’s working on the nail-biting, but his career isn’t going to change, so he’ll always have...