Understanding how your family's cultural upbringing shaped your own
ABC Everyday I've learned it's OK to form my own cultural identity, even when it differs from my family's. But it took time. ( Print text only Cancel One weekend when I was 14, I anxiously sat on the couch with my parents watching TV, waiting for an ad break to ask a question I had been dreading. But my nerves got the best of me, and my well-rehearsed plea to attend my friend's birthday sleepover turned into word vomit. Before I could finish, my parents shut it down. "Didn't you see Ashley last week? Will there be alcohol? Drugs? Why do I want to sleepover at someone else's house? Don't you h...