Flowers will wilt and die but a good sex toy will last forever, provided it s a rechargeable one. This Valentine s Day we re championing self-love in all its guises, so today is the perfect time to pull out all the plugs and prioritise yourself. Sex Siopa founder and owner Shawna Scott explains how you can spice up your sex life on the most romantic day of the year regardless of whether you re coupled up or flying solo. I don t think there should be just one day dedicated to telling someone you love them, she says. And I don t think people should feel obliged to buy each other gifts to do so (don t worry, the irony of an online retailer waxing lyrical about the pointlessness of Valentine s Day is not lost on me).