People together and you think that's a good thing? >> i think it's better than what we had. however, this doesn't guarantee a happier marriage or a longer marriage because we have this allusion in our culture right now that the key to successful marriage is choosing the perfect partner when actually it's about being the perfect partner. having good relationship skills. so many kids today kids, young adults, children of divorce and the way they learn to resolve conflict is to leave. >> bill: why is the internet better than what you had? why? >> because in these personality studies, you can actu...