From Janelle Monáe to Taika Waititi: Tessa Thompson's Rumored Dating History Is Enviable If you've found yourself wondering why you can't recall any of Tessa Thompson's past relationships, that's because she's famously known for keeping details about her personal life private. However, when it comes to who she loves and why she's private, she did open up to "I can take things for granted because of my family – it's so free and you can be anything that you want to be. I'm attracted to men and also to women. If I bring a woman home, [or] a man, we don't even have to have the discussion," th...