Ben said that his family is doing the best they can, given the tragic circumstances. Ben and Karen were married more than 28 years ago, in September 1992. They have three children — Taralyn, 25, Timothy, 21, and Tavyn, 19. "It's the quiet times that become difficult … at night when I finally go to bed," Ben said. "I check my texts in the day or messenger or Facebook or Twitter, and it's like I have my own personal Chicken Soup for the Soul book that's written about my wife." Ben, Taralyn, Timothy, Tavyn and his children's significant others have been spending time together, healing. ...