I know there was some sort of critique that emerged from the second wave feminine movement that said, okay, you can't say mom and chief. we have come too far. i kept saying, no, no, no. when an african-american woman says, my family is more important than anything else it is almost politically subversive in its historic cal power. >> to give the feminists some credit, they were trying to move forward. where african-american women, things being said about we are not good enough mothers or we are not paying attention, i think it was really important for first lady obama to say this first of all....