there's the one person at the table who ends up using the wrong bread plate. you don't want to be that person. you want to brush up you on your dining etiquette and table manners. there are great websites. do that before the party. make sure you demonstrate the outstanding social skills once you're at the party. >> nothing worse than somebody like eating over the whole plate of food that reeverybody else i going to be getting, get a spoonful and move on. somehow people still need reminders. you do want to be polite to your co-workers' spouses and partners. you want to show you can be social with them too. >> to what extent? >> this is so critical, isn't it? you want people to be walking away, your colleagues' spouses and dates to be driving home and