less aware and fix yated on themselves. telling them they're wonderful makes them self-centered and that's the last thing you want. >> clayton: what do you want to tell them. >> tucker: get the hell out of bed. >> alisyn: and with other people and help them see what their shortcomings may be, and they can work on those, just saying they're great. and i had drinks the other day with a young woman and she was talking about the guy she wants, the-- all of these new york guys they're so lousy i want one with a great job who makes a lot of money who is very responsible, who does this and that and i said what do you bring to the table just out of curiosity. >> tucker: i want someone rich, hot and love me and bring me to paris every quarter. good luck. >> clayton: did you tell you those guys don't exist? >> right. they've been hunted to extinction. i've told her. >> clayton: if you're in manhattan, and online dating scenario appear to be more attractive and put a photo