>> i had never been so offended in my life. >> then the bloom had faded. there would never be a marriage or children. >> for the last six months of our relationship, think think we knew it wasn't going to go anywhere. >> and in february of 2008 they broke it auchlt maybe that's why weeks later she didn't hear right away about what happened. >> we have an emergency, we need everybody now. >> what kind of problem? >> i don't snow. >> didn't hear about a grisly double murder or that one of the victims was named ernest scherer. coming up, was one of the victims the man she had loved? >> it didn't seem like something like that could really have happened to someone i know. >> when "dateline" continues. 60% of women are wearing the wrong size pad and