you that our beloved family member cries she laughs, she swims, she dances and more importantly she loves and she is loved. she lives not as a victim but as a survivor. her insurmountable will to prevail is the only story worth discussing. >> angela, you know a lot more about this than anybody here. there was something so empowering about what we saw there and miss knight. talking in court it was almost as if they were finally able to assert dominance of their own lives, not necessarily dominance over this man but dominance and strength in themselves. how difficult is this healing process going to be for these three young women and for their families? >> well, everybody reacts differently to trauma, but i honest li feel the more that people can talk about it -- when you keep it inside and you don't