>> tara and james flew 2,000 miles from calgary, canada, to be here. at 31 they're among the youngest couples at the convention. >> simple, white on white. >> so, how did you two meet? >> at work. >> we shared an office together even. >> she tried to get me fired. >> thought he was kind of an ass-hole. >> what would you like to do? >> it wasn't love at first sight but a spark ignited and tara and james became friends with benefits. it was an office fling with a strong connection. but neither wanted to be exclusive. >> do that before. i don't think i'm a one partner person. i was in a few long term relationships. i got bored. >> we're both very sexual people. we started talking about all these things and being able to be open about it. >> that's so cool. >> there's a whole community of people like this. i was like, there is?