told somebody you love them? [laughter] >> maybe someone no -- >> everybody loves me back. >> jim what about you? >> charge me anyway. >> i had that wren down -- ever had them tell you and have them sue you? >> i have heard weird like sometimes when you know like the turn on is the opposite sometimes with women where it was inappropriate we say we love each other and then people you really love you have bizarre kink so sometimes you love a person if you're involved in something because it feels to say it inappropriate. >> so two different kinds of saying i love you is what you're saying. yeah, i don't know. i don't remember like when i said it. my husband says that i said it first but i say he said it first. but i really don't know because -- >> you said it first. >> probably. >> i have a lot of feelings like i'm impulsive so -- >> exactly. it just kind of happens but i