4 Things You Didn't Know About Oral Sex by Image: Shutterstock When it comes to sex, it’s not just about the intercourse, it is about building up to the moment until you finally climax (or not). The Big O is quite elusive to women while it’s easier to hit the jackpot with men. There are, however, very many ways you can lead a woman or a man to orgasm. Remember, number 7 on Monica’s list? Yes, that’s right. There are still many people who are uncomfortable or find it ‘dirty’ to engage in oral intercourse. In that case, you need to be in line with your partner about what you want, and vice and versa. While oral intercourse can be really pleasurable, here are four tiny things that may have slipped your mind while going down: