'90 Day Fiancé': Stephanie Confesses Deep Feelings for Harris Just Hours After Her Split From His Cousin Ryan ETOnline 3/8/2021 Antoinette Bueno Stephanie asked Harris -- whom she had slept with once before when she and Ryan briefly split in the past -- to stay with her during the remainder of her trip on Belize because she wanted comfort after kicking Ryan out of her hotel. Although she accidentally slipped and called Harris "Ryan" at one point, she said that Harris is now the one she wants to be with. "Ryan and I are over," she told cameras. "But there's a possibility that his cousin Harris and I might have a future ahead of us."