Embed iframe src "https://www.npr.org/player/embed/971811133/971888488" width "100%" height "290" frameborder "0" scrolling "no" title "NPR embedded audio player" SARAH MCCAMMON, HOST: This is NPR's LIFE KIT, and I'm Sarah McCammon. Some people are born knowing they want to be parents. Others are sure they never do. But for a lot of folks, knowing when it's the right time to have a baby and if it's even the right thing for your life is a tough decision. JILL LOGUIDICE: I know I love kids. I just don't know if I want to do the 24/7 of parenthood. There's no return policy on kids.