'You're going to live with this the rest of your life': What depressed dad texted estranged wife before he died inside burning Florida vacation home with their two sons in murder-suicide Sheriff's office and fire reports shed light on what happened in the two hours before Paul Reinhart was found dead along with his two sons on May 5 Authorities believe Paul, 46, killed Brody, 11, and Rex, 14, before taking his own life after losing his job and becoming separated from his wife Minde Reinhart, Paul's wife, received texts from her husband early on May 5, in which he blamed her for everything When Minde arrived at couple's empty home in Gainesville, Florida, she found 400 of their wedding photos scattered on the floor