Dame Barbara Windsor found love with third husband after heartache PA Dame Barbara Windsor finally found enduring love with her third husband Scott Mitchell. The couple wed just over 20 years ago in London’s Dorchester Hotel. The actress was 62 and Mitchell was 36 and their relationship became one of the most solid in the showbiz world. Before her successful third marriage, Dame Barbara had a colourful love life dogged by heartache. Barbara Windsor and Ronnie Knight The soap star had flings with footballer George Best, Bee Gee Maurice Gibb and Carry On co-star Sid James. Her marriage to infamous East End villain Ronnie Knight often hit the headlines.