care. what's your read on this? >> it's very interesting. it's very easy to judge and say, oh, my gosh, these people are in prison, they're daj r dangngero can anybody get into this kind of relationship? but studies show these women who get involved with these men, the relationship is very is ntensiv. a man who has a job is working, he's juggling children, paying bills, is frazzled, going out with the guys, has freedom. probably won't focus on a woman the way a man in prison will. >> pam knew her guy before he went to prison. >> that is different because they had a preexisting relationship. it is different from somebody who has a pen pal and then falls in love. >> larry: how do you explain tim