her eye watched a small and then larger and larger group of young muslims gathering. and after all of the microphones and tv cameras had gone, this now large group of young muslims came over to me and my mother and they said to her, mrs. manji, thank you for supporting irshad. and my mother looked at them quizzically and said, well, i really appreciate that, but why didn't you say that earlier when you, you know, could have basically broadcast that message to others who would be watching and they'd know that they're not alone? and they looked at each other sheepishly, and then they said, you don't understand, you have the luxury of being able to walk away from detroit two hours from now. we don't. and we cannot be accused of dishonoring our families. these are children of the first amendment. where are the moderates going wrong? >> and i think one of the reasons why they're afraid is because of proselytization.