activists gathered just five weeks ago. blind sided and betrayed. it took years for the author of how stella got her grove back to get her happiness back. that emotional journey inspired her latest novel "getting to happy" a sequel to her best selling book snchtd waiting to exhale." women who are happy need to rediscover themselves. >> i think a lot of women just flat line, they feel like this is the hand i was dealt, i'm married to this guy, or my kids are gone and here we are, and they just sort of throw in the towel in a sense and that's what i mean, when i use the term emotionally flat lined, it's like they can take it or leave it. and i think that is a very sad way to live. and that life is not over when