married, i believe, am i correct? >> you are correct? >> now one of the big decisions you had to make when you got married was who you were going to invite and who you were not going to invite. because let's face it, if you invited great auntie bessey, you had to invite great uncle joe. >> i just eloped so i might be a bad example. >>s a stoubded to dropping on the network. the point is they have to decide were they going to invite sarah ferguson, who was caught bribing or being bribed, but then you've got one of katherine middleton's great uncles who was caught on camera selling cocaine. so you have a problem there. one got invited, the other didn't. how many should you invite? now the abby holds 1,900 people.