the appearance of recognizing and understanding the great privilege of living in the white house, and i think she will come to washington for state dinners and be a visible presence here. >> and it makes you wonder if trump will then be going to new york when he's president to visit his wife and his son. that and i imagine that is a sort of security nightmare, if you will, for new york and secret service. i mean, that's unprecedented, too, i would imagine. >> it is. i think it's really interesting, because a lot of first ladies in history say their happiest memories are in the white house with their husbands because they get to see them more than ever before. jackie kennedy said this, michelle obama has joked about that. you're living above the store, essentially. on the campaign they barely get to see their husbands and that would definitely be true for donald trump and melania. you would think they would want to spend as much time as possible, and i think they'll find it's much easier if they're both living together in the white house rather than traveling back and forth every