right. should have gotten the information out there quicker. the phone call should have been made quicker. there is nothing more sack row sanct as someone who lost troops in combat than how on solemn it is to make that phone call, as the colonel just said. thief made their life. the family should be embraced. all families. should families feel embraced. some did not. we should quit politicizing this. this is sacrosanct. our fallen are sacred to us. our families are sacred to us. i'm still in touch with families of soldiers that were lost under my command because that's how sacred it is to me and i'm sure to the thousands of other commanders that have lost men and women in combat. >> the problem we're getting