sacrifice. >> he said to me, what do i say? i said to him, sir, there's nothing you can do to lighten the burden on these families, but let me tell you what my best friend joe dunphy told me, because he was my casualty officer. he said, kel, he was doing exactly what he wanted to do when he was killed. he knew what he was getting into by joining the -- that 1%. >> now kelly offered up this explanation at a time when president trump is under scrutiny for the tone and words he spoke to the widow of sergeant la david johnson. this is not the narrative the white house wants but how difficult it is to get away from all side, whether it's kelly, congresswoman, president trump,