that's been around children knows the immediate impulse of a young child to see a stranger walk in the house is wariness. and that is correct behavior. normal human behavior. these children are so hungry and thirsty for any kind of one on one attention that they will run and cling to total strangers. so i have literally had the experience of being crawled over by shaven headed children. i remember a girl crawling on my lap and holding me and i did hug her. i was heartbroken by it. part of me wants to pick her up and go, of course it does. that's the human reaction. for me, lumos is about the children who i mean, i heard heartbreaking stories. i met children, i visited institutions, i am hyper aware, when i visit, i see the best of the best, and even then, i have seen horrible, horrible things.