60 years going to the tree of life synagogue. i remember her family telling me she always tried to sit in the exact same seat. her grand kits all called her bubby. what a life she was. >> i had the -- i don't want to say a misfortune because being with the mallinger family is blessing, but that afternoon when we were putting together grief counseling and trying to get information from the fbi, i'll never forget for the rest of my life not being able to get ahold of my mom, and then being able to give them the information of yes, we do and the families have been notified and him asking again about her and finding out she was 97 and