so he resigned that evidently touched a nerve. i was surprised by the flood of emails and posts they ranged from your my role model to your an idiot. more and more men in germany want to be closely involved in raising their children many employers however are dead set against that and create obstacles. our anonymous father is an insurance agent he wanted to look after his daughter when she was little but his company refused to play along. with the boss said no he was very disparaging to the whole idea of real men don't look after kids that's women's work might as well start wearing stockings. it was really nasty you know what it was to want to look after your children as well his prejudices were ironclad an antiquated they don't belong in the present day and age but that was no consolation