a very uncertain of being told that we would lose our child and at such a late stage in the pregnancy felt like the world was caving am. an amniocentesis soon proved that the baby did not have a traditionally disorder but there was still the question of the missing membrane the doctors warned that the baby might be born blind or disabled suddenly sorrow and mark were being asked if they wanted to terminate the pregnancy. so immediately as having been we never considered it and certainly not for a disability if we thought he'd be in pain or would have been suffering the maybe i'd have thought about it a little more life and. know as father mark has now quit his job as a laboratory assistant and he's studying to become a pediatrician. you know it's going to start soon and as we went through the various stages with the doctors they didn't really deal with us as human beings and