everyone has to do is how to speak the language of a woman. he is a man and i think very differently than he does as a man. i think it's true in every marriage. i think like a woman, he thinks like a man. part of the art of marriage is learning to appreciate our differences and how we blend together to really produce a better union together than we would individually apart. i think the less sn is how to speak woman. >> governor, if you learn to speak woman at valentine's day as a man, you know how a woman spells romanromance? >> how is that? >> r-e-l-e-t-i-o-n-; h-i-p. >> relationship. >> i thought you were going to say m-o-n-e-y. >> diamonds, diamonds. >> that. too. >> dennis and barbara i want to say thank you so much for being here. i know you are in the middle of an incredible event there. what an encouragement you are to