i came across interesting advice from dr. gregory of the institute. greg, this statement was designed for me and greg. here are five signs you are in a toxic relationship. one it seems like you can't do anything right. two it is about them and not you. three, you find yourself unable to enjoy good moments with this person. you're uncomfortable being yourself around this person and five, you're unable to grow and change. does that ring a bell for you? >> you both aren't going to grow anymore. >> i'm shrinking as we speak. a relationship is toxic when somebody uses the word toxic. what happened to bad or lousy? magazine and experts use that word toxic. the a thing i hate about this is -- >> toxic is more descriptive than bad. >> this article was written by