>> laura: you require people refer to you as -- when do didu transition? >> i don't like to use the word require. if someone else is going to use gendered nouns for me that i don't like i'm not going to take offense to it. there are bigger issues at hand than this. i hesitate to even say we, because when i got on the board, when i was elected the first issues i wanted to tackle were and we are tackling our issues of development, not being handled responsibly in our city. these are what are actually important. >> laura: you know what i was thinking i grew up in connecticut and glastonbury, connecticut has so many problem problems. losing jobs. losing businesses. taxes. i don't care if you are transgender, gazed, straight, whatever you are -- but if you are in politics in connecticut,