ritual, we tend to focus on the shooter in a search for answers in the hours of a slaughter like. this let's not forget mr. reed or martin or sylvia fraiser who held a second job at walmart because she liked working with people. arthur daniels had nine grandkids. nine. kathleen gaarde was a bird watcher, hockey fan and wife of 38 years. by all accounts, kenneth proctor was a loving dad as was frank kohler and mike who texted his affection for his daughters daily. just a few weeks ago, mary delorenzo knight was getting ready for the wedding of her daughter. at 72, j.j. johnson could have spent his retirement giving his signature bear hugs. but he loved work too much. coming from india as a young man, vishnu pandit raised a family, served the navy with pride 25 years and michael arnold won't get to finish the beloved plane he was building or hug his kids again.