so, you know, you really try to hold out hope the whole time. >> and kylie, do you have any suggestions for the authorities on how they should, based on your experience, on how they should hand this will kind of notification? >> it gets very difficult. what people have to understand, and this is where it's just really hard if you're not in a military community to really understand how this works. because, you know, right now, ft. hood is, one, trying to determine who is injured and who has been killed. and those that have been killed, they go through a process and they have to find who gets first notification, who is their mother, who is the father, who is the wife, or the husband. and figuring and determining who that is. and how quickly they have to find that information. if this is someone who just arrived at ft. hood that day because they were going to go through srp or something, they don't have access to that information quickly, as you