nobody is perfect. no marriage ideal. sometimes with a little distance you see things. >> we weren't friends. we were neighbors. that's how i look to put it. >> right next door to the creamers, no more than a couple of track house walls and a strip of grass apart, lived a man who saw the creamers through a less rosy lens. this is randall howes, retired naval officer, and it was something about the chemistry with anna wasn't good. especially an altercation about his dogs. >> she said the dogs barked, barked. she really got mad. i said, okay, anna we're not having this conversation right now. i turned and walked away. and that really made her mad. after that, i never spoke to her. >> so there was tension across that strip of grass. and then howes got the idea that maybe ken had some trouble with anna's temper too, since ken gave howes the cold shoulder