each other after a chance meeting at a bar. >> this girl walked by me, and she said, "goodbye." and at that moment, i said, "well, how can you say goodbye to me? you never said hello." >> reporter: sure they argued, toby says, but the birth of baby brittany brought them closer together. >> did you think you had a future together? >> oh, yes. we planned on getting married. that's what our goal was. >> so, you were going to give it a shot? >> oh, yeah. >> reporter: that night, toby says, the only reason he wasn't with dana at the south side roxy is because he'd come home after a hard day at work. he was beat. >> as dana went to go away to go to the party and everything, she woke me up and told me, "i love you." and that was the last thing i ever heard from her. >> reporter: it was a touching tale, but dana's mother didn't buy it. she asked toby to leave the hospital in those final, awful days, sure that he was involved in dana's death. sister deb didn't know what to think. the only thing she was certain