each other is doing that. we're just hoping this ends and they come to some kind of resolution. >> you've said that american express and some of your local utilities have been understanding and are allowing you to pay your bills a little later, but you're not seeing the same for the usaa. you're saying it's giving you false information. explain that. >> yeah, well, the big issue with them is they did just donate a lot of money to coast guard mutual assistance, which is excellent. that was very helpful. the problem was that they were offering us a very low interest loan, which is wonderful, except it takes a hard hit to your credit. so unfortunately, other banks were offering, you know, a loan because they know the money is coming. it's just a matter of when. they weren't taking a hit to your credit. so that was the issue that we were running into with usaa. >> you're saying that some people have been harassing you and claiming your husband is not really in the military.