>> reporter: so now harold, the planner, as he'd said in his dating profile, was ready. on valentine's day 2000, he set out to orchestrate the perfect proposal harold really studied the jackson area to find out the perfect place to propose and he found this beautiful place in jackson that we all love >> reporter: and how excited was she to tell you her news >> very. she was excited. and she had a beautiful ring it was a nice ring and just -- she was very happy very happy that it seemed like it was all coming together and she was going to be very happy >> reporter: on september 30th, 2000, less than a year after they had met in person, toni bertolet married harold henthorn in a big church wedding in jackson. >> she looked fantastic, happy, glowing. >> it was a lovely day it was beautiful >> it looked like the first day of the rest of her life. it really did. >> reporter: the future was bright toni's career had been her focus for so long. harold promised something different.