Harry, 36, explained that as pressure mounted on his wife, 39, and she even spoke to her husband about having suicidal thoughts, he “went to all the places which I thought I should go to, to ask for help. We both did, separately and together.” He explained that their decision to take a step back came from “a lack of support and lack of understanding.” Prince Harry and Meghan Markle PA Images/INSTARimages.com “We were saying, ‘OK, if this isn’t working for everyone, we’re in a lot of pain, you can’t provide us with the help that we need, we can just take a step back. We can do it in a commonwealth country,'” Harry said. “We suggested New Zealand, South Africa … My biggest concern was history repeating itself, and I’ve said that before on numerous occasions, very publicly. And what I was seeing was history repeating itself, but more, perhaps — or definitely far more dangerous, because then you add race in and you add social media in.”